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The Zan and Jordan Show — Restoring Beauty — Longing, Yearning, Certainty, Conviction | Debunking Masculine & Feminine Approaches to Love
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Who Longs More: Women or Men?
The words “longing” and “yearning” have become mainstays in our recent conversation with men. Strange - these are terms you find in Rumi’s mystic poetry, or in femininity goddess work, not the male dating arena. But here we have it: men owning their longing for relationship, and all the poetic wisdom that the longing itself contains.
At the same time, more men than ever are voicing their discomfort with terms like “certainty” and “conviction”. These are classic ‘masculine qualities’. Sure, it’s dicey to claim certainty and conviction over anything in today’s world… but will any great love affair take off if both parties are restricted to yearning, and neither embodies a bit of conviction about their feelings?
Today, Zan and Jordan explore this well-worn language used in today’s ‘conscious’ or ‘spiritual intimacy’ circles. Zan debunks a number of definitions of these terms. I, Jordan, don’t necessarily agree. What do you think?
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ARS AMORATA is a celebration of the art of seduction, the rebirth of romance, and a lifelong quest for beauty and adventure.
Ars Amorata is a philosophy of beauty. It is a way of life. It is not a religion. It is a belief system, similar to the way one might call Stoicism a belief system or a way of life. It is a layer that exists (or not) below all religion and all social structures. And it belongs to all of you.
Philosophers throughout the ages have argued whether beauty is objective or subjective, but in my view, beauty is neither. It is neither inherent as a property of the object (the objective view) nor is it in the eye of the beholder (the subjective view). Beauty is a third thing altogether.
Beauty is prime. It stands alone. It is a thing apart, in Kant's words: a Thing-In-Itself (Ding an sich). Beauty emanates from what Aristotle called the Unmoved Mover, what Plotinus called The One, what scientists call the Big Bang, and what John in the New Testament called the Word or Logos.
Ars Amorata is an attempt to lift Beauty to its rightful place as the primary guiding principle in our hearts and in the world.
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