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The Zan and Jordan Show — Beyond Commitment: When She Loves You in Ways that Increase Your Freedom (Rather than Restrict It) — Epsiode 42
Think you don’t want to ‘commit’ to a relationship? This video will change the way you see commitment, show you how to love freely, and stop being so attached and jealous.
(Abundance in the Land of Women, Episode 42)
WHAT YOU’LL LEARN:
- All women come and go, and no woman will be in your life forever: accepting that fact is the first step in having a relationship that’s meaningful
- Why being devoted to your partner’s happiness – above all else – is the recipe for a free and fulfilling relationship
- How to tell if you’re acting from a place of neediness and lack (which pushes women away) or giving women what they really want
- How to overcome jealousy and suspicion, and create an enjoyable time for you and a girl
TIMESTAMPS:
00:00 Intro
03:57 Myths About Commitment
09:22 How Women Are Like Butterflies (A Woman Will Only Ever Be in Your Life for a Finite Period)
13:22 A Constraining Relationship vs. a Freeing Relationship
16:15 How to Snap Out of Jealousy & Suspicion
25:00 What Is Devotion?
31:55 The Test: Could You Be Devoted to a Woman Like This?
39:00 Remember This When Your Entitlement and Resentment Pop Up
Have you ever known someone (a woman or a man) that you could’ve used for your own gain, but didn’t, because you valued their happiness and well-being more?
Share your story in the comments below. Because loving freely is the only chance you have at loving for real.
ABOUT THIS VIDEO:
The word ‘commitment’ gets thrown around a lot in the world of dating coaching.
Women hire coaches to help them find a man who will ‘actually’ commit, while men listen to coaches talk about the freedom that comes with commitment.
But as one Amorati member observed, the word ‘commitment’ hardly features in the Ars Amorata lexicon: Zan hardly uses it, and apparently it’s nowhere to be found in the Essentials masterclass.
It’s not without reason, Zan says. ‘Commitment’ has become a buzzword, kind of like ‘authenticity’ and ‘vulnerability’.
Devotion is a word that Zan prefers to champion.
What’s the difference?
Tune in to hear Zan and Jordan discuss their views on relationships that go beyond the kind of ‘commitment’ you’re familiar with, and actually foster more freedom and fulfillment for you and the woman you're with, rather than restrict it.
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