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The Zan and Jordan — Episode 28 — Dealing With One-Sided Attraction? Here’s Something To Consider
Episode 28 — Dealing With One-Sided Attraction? Here’s Something To Consider
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Zan famously writes in The Alabaster Girl, “Love is symmetrical…The ones you love are the ones who love you”.
Many men (and women) have read and re-read this line, understanding it conceptually, yet fail to *know the experience of being symmetrically in love*.
Why?
Zan and Jordan explore the answer in today’s episode.
Many men who experience feelings of limerence or ‘asymmetrical love’, do so because something clouds their judgement. Seeking to fill an inherent feeling of lack with external stimuli, they pursue partners to cover up deep wounds like a band-aid, failing to experience mutual fulfillment on a heart level.
It’s often prescribed that lasting satisfaction comes when you fill your own voids, inwardly.
What do you think? Have you ever experienced what you could call ‘fully reciprocal love’? If not, do you believe it’s possible? And if so, what can you actually do about it?
Send us your thoughts.
~Anthony
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ARS AMORATA is a celebration of the art of seduction, the rebirth of romance, and a lifelong quest for beauty and adventure.
Ars Amorata is a philosophy of beauty. It is a way of life. It is not a religion. It is a belief system, similar to the way one might call Stoicism a belief system or a way of life. It is a layer that exists (or not) below all religion and all social structures. And it belongs to all of you.
Philosophers throughout the ages have argued whether beauty is objective or subjective, but in my view, beauty is neither. It is neither inherent as a property of the object (the objective view) nor is it in the eye of the beholder (the subjective view). Beauty is a third thing altogether.
Beauty is prime. It stands alone. It is a thing apart, in Kant's words: a Thing-In-Itself (Ding an sich). Beauty emanates from what Aristotle called the Unmoved Mover, what Plotinus called The One, what scientists call the Big Bang, and what John in the New Testament called the Word or Logos.
Ars Amorata is an attempt to lift Beauty to its rightful place as the